shopperbob Wrote:
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> There're 3 of life's situations of which I've not
> an iota of compassion nor sympathy: The
> mistreatment of children, the elderly or animals.
> The punishment for said offenses, in my opinion,
> can't be too severe.
>
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> I don't state personal philosophies on a business
> forum, but I felt Jacob's point cried out for a
> counterpoint.
I 100% agree. While I too try to refrain from posting my personal philosphies on a message board, I am so unbelievable sickned from this and feel compelled to add my two cents to the counterpoint.
I do not feel that I am "jumping to conclusions" - I have read the news articles, which are based on police reports. While I am willing to give that perhaps the parents have alterntive belief systems, or perhaps they are mentally ill, I 100% support the removal of the children from the home. I will refrain from my opinion on what/how the parents should be punished. As a parent, I would think that there could be no greater punishment than the loss of my child, although I concede that perhaps these parents have different views on this issue.
Also, while this does not make the accusations better or worse, this is not a situation of poverty. If you are familiar with the area in which they lived, this is an upscale area. Furthermore, the articles have noted that food was found in the home, so that is not the issue either. The parents were arrested and the children were removed from the home because of extreme neglect, to include a 2 year old wandering outside and into a street while feverish and ill and "shaking so badly that they could not pick up a toy" while the parents slept.
In sum, DSS does not remove children on "speculation" and in fact, there has to be EXTERME cases of danger to children before parents would EVER be arrested and children removed from the home.
ETA: As someone that has worked in the system, while police are expected to ere on the side of caution, this only goes so far and pertains more to the idea of overt abuse (i.e. physical and sexual) vs. implied abuse (neglect) like this is. To arrest parents and remove children for neglect is actually quite difficult and does not happen very often. Usually the family is placed on mandatory DSS watch - which results in a DSS worker visiting every month or so.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 08/23/2011 11:37PM by MickeyB.