I knew it. Homelessness is a fiery topic. So let's look at the other end of the spectrum. Millionaires.
Thomas Stanley wrote the book, "The Millionaire Next Door." His survey showed that 80% or so of millionaires basically received no inheritance. They're self-made. They feel that a large part of their success was due to their own hard work. But surveys of the general population show that people, in large part, think success is mostly due to luck (like some people on this forum). That disagreement is perhaps the greatest difference between our two political parties. It's a myth that you are your group. And by that we're referring to where you were born, the color of your skin, your gender, etc.
It says, “Believing in that gives you an out to explain why you cannot get ahead”. So, why are the rich, rich and the poor, poor? How much of that can be attributed to hard work and ability and how much should be attributed to circumstances, discrimination, privilege, and luck?
Here is what the the daughter of the author of that book, Dr. Sarah Stanley Fallaw (who has a PhD in industrial psychology) had to say,
"First of all, what we know is that those of us who really view financial success as something that we can control, that's up to us, that we know that if I work hard or if I am able to be disciplined about my finances, will be more successful than those that believe that something else or someone else controls their financial success.
That's what we call locus of control in psychology and it does correlate with building wealth and net worth. So, we know that that's the case, and that's why that myth of, “Well, if I'm in a certain group, and my group looks like this in general, I can't get out of this.” That is one of the things that certainly is a myth.
I think my father certainly was very aware of the fact that if your income level is at the poverty level or something like that, it's going to be extremely difficult for you to pull yourself out of that and become a millionaire. I think those are the kinds of things that people get stuck on. And he certainly recognized that, and I do, as well.
I think the difference, like I said, comes in when we're using some of these things as sort of crutches for why we can't do things. We know what it takes to build wealth. We know what it takes to sustain wealth from a behavioral perspective, but a lot of us just don't want to do those things. And that's the hard part.
But I think it's naive to not recognize the fact that there are challenges that each of us has because of those factors. We absolutely do need to recognize them. And so it may be harder for some to overcome those, but in general, what we know is that if you have this mindset that you can actually impact what happens to you, the likelihood that you'll be successful is higher."
In summary, it's mostly mindset.
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