It seems that some schedulers/editors view shoppers as less than human....we're not regular people, we're just a means to their end.
Here's another story I keep forgetting to tell here.
A few years ago, when I was living in another state, we had an afternoon of tornado warnings...schools closed, businesses let out early, everybody got off the road....after the first one hit, a state of emergency was declared.
I cancelled the only shop I had that day.
The next day, in a Facebook group for shoppers and schedulers, a well known scheduler in the MS world bitterly complained that every shopper had cancelled on her the day before. She said terrible things about all of us. It turns out she lived in a different state, not close to the state with the tornados. It never occurred to her to check the news. To wonder why so many in a certain area had cancelled. People jumped all over her, even other schedulers - responding to her meanness.
She's been on my bad girl list ever since.
Life was passing like a hand waving from a train I wanted to be on