Ok, so alot of ground has been covered. First, those of you that have seen me post for years should know that I am disabled. I can not just up and get a job. I found a medium that i am able to do. If my husband gets a job and we no longer work in tandem then my options are limited. Number 1 i can do reception or dispatch but without any connections or recent experience that is a imited opportunity. Also, i greatly like making my schedule and working for myself and not dealing with jerk bosses who talk down to people when I've been a company OWNER for 7 years. I do have "concepts" (yes, I'm being funny...) which includes YouTube *digital creator" i bought the tripod and ringlight but my computer is down. i need another more up to date one and i have to train myself how to edit and stitch videos. This new computer would also enable me to do closed captioning. But i don't need the extra bill right now.
My ol man doesn't have these physical limitations that i do. However, if we just up and make this move before I am properly set up with gigs then the job would have to pay enough to take two people's income and combine it into one person's income. I would no longer want to do out of town routes over an hour away with all the driving on me alone. It will be harder on me mentally and physically, not to mention the car situation.
But my real dream is real estate. I've only been able to buy 1 house and since COVID I haven't even been able to finish that one house so right now it's more of a liability than an asset.
I am very familiar with "bidding " on assignments. However, since the majority of gas stations shifted companies there is no bidding now its wait and see what's left when the bonuses finally do get added.
Since both vehicles now have over 200k miles on them with miscellaneous minor issues-I cut Tennessee and Helen GA, Trenton GA out. I felt the mountains might put too much pressure on the transmissions. The computer issue removed apartments and essay style reports i hate typing on a phone when I'm a qwerty gjrl. Maybe i am being a whiny a$$ about the contract changing hands. But going from a base of 6-900 a week minimum to the garbage fees in GA right now and knowing that the petroleum industry is making record profits, in the billions, maybe I'm just feeling a little short changed.
As for being flexible in this position for 7 years i do consider myself flexible. I make most of the routes for us and if an unexpected bonused shop pops up then I have to flip flop the routes around. That takes flexibility. Being willing to try a new shop and see how that works out takes flexibility. And my husband doesn't like trying new jobs, so i am definitely more flexible than he is.
As for "allow" or come to a mutual decision...hmmm when it means i can't work anymore then i throw a hissy fit...Scorpio woman who is as stubborn and hard headed (as a rock) i can and will usually get my way...need i say more?? I am not a very good "stay at home" wifey...
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/04/2024 09:21AM by F and L TeleComm.