In the mid 2000s a bank my wife and I had an account at invited us to join their in-house mystery shopper program. I do not think they called it "Mystery Shopping" but that's what it was. I think we did a job a month at different branches and got paid $5 or $10. There were a brief report that had to be filled out and mailed in. I never knew or even thought about mystery shopping being a legit thing, even when we did these small jobs for our bank. We did not do them for money per se, I had a very good job and did well, but hey, $5 is $5.
After a few years, we changed banks and those jobs went away. Fast-forward a few more years. Life happens. We were almost killed, literally, by a violent criminal. I developed PTSD as a result, but didn't know it. I thought because my physical injuries were healed (mostly), that I was fine. Us guys, we tend to hide are feelings and push through. Not understanding what was going on with me, I spiraled, made some serious mistakes, cheated on my wife, and ultimately lost my job. I had always worked since I was a teenager, so being without a job was probably the biggest fear I had. I thought was world was going to end, not to mention my marriage. To be sure, I did not have to work. As I said, I did well in my career, we had 6-figures spread out across multiple bank accounts, plus over 100k in investments. I enjoyed working, however, so to find myself at home not needing to do anything was weird. But - I did have something to do, and that was to try to fix my marriage. For the time being, we stayed together and worked on rebuilding our life together. We sold our home and moved to be closer to family, which meant my wife gave up her job, too.
Many months went by. My wife wanted to work, but she wanted to do something different. She quickly found a job at of all places, Olan Mills, where she quickly became the manager. She would go on to turn a losing store that was about to close into the number one store in the district. Meanwhile, I did not want to go back into my career. I had casually sold on eBay on and off since 2004, I decided to see could I do that more as a job. In doing some research about selling online full-time, I came across another mystery shopping message board. I think it started with a "V?" I can't recall the name. From there, I learned about the gig economy. That was a new term, it seemed like it had only been around a year or so. I learned about apps like Field Agent, Zappity, Easy Shift, and Gigwalk. A whole new world opened.
I went through that mystery shopping message board and learned there was a whole industry built around it. I never asked anybody what companies to sign up with. I just started signing up with all of them. Of course, many did not have jobs in my area, but there were many that did. I saw jobs for gas stations audits. For those reason, those intrigued me. I took one job, read the guidelines, and did it. I didn't feel like I knew what I was doing, but my job was accepted, and I decided to do more. I expanded and started doing audits for K-Mart and Sears, and eventually pure mystery shopping. I found I enjoyed the gas stations the most.
Life happens. My marriage eventually fell apart. The divorce cost me most of my savings. I did not only have to pay for attorneys and all of that crap, but stupid me was not prompt in removing my wife from our joint accounts. I guess I had hopes we would work things out, or she would come back to me. My wife ended up draining the joint accounts and I did not realize it until it was too late.
I went on a sabbatical and did missionary work for a number of years. Covid hit. During that time my mom started developing symptoms of what I thought was dementia. Once it was safe, I made the decision to come back home and care for her. I'm from a small town, and the only jobs here are really service jobs. There are some factory jobs, but that's not my thing. I figured I could go do service work, or I could mystery shop the servers. I had not shopped in many years, and did not even know whether the companies I shopped for even existed. Well, it turned out there were a few that didn't, but there were some that were still around and some new ones, too. I was able to get back in with them very easily and started working again. I also decided to start reselling again. I enjoy reselling and doing audits. I do not enjoy pure mystery shopping, unless it is something simple like USPS. By Q3 last year, I was about 60% sure that I wanted to focus on reselling full-time, rather than have one-foot in reselling and one foot in audits/shopping. After I had an amazing Q4 reselling, I decided that was the way I wanted to go. Also, with mom's memory getting worse, it has been harder for me to go out of town all day. I can go for maybe 6 hours, but I can't do 12-15 hour days anymore. (Mom was forgetting to eat, but telling me when I called to check on her that she had eaten. I was getting home at 9pm and realizing she had not eaten all day.)
My plan was to shift to shift to 100% reselling in Q1 2024. But, a dead tree from a neighbor's property fell onto our garage, where I housed my inventory. It turned out mom had let her insurance lapse, and the property is owned by a rental company that refuses to help cover even a part of the repairs, which will cost around $15,000. So, while I am doing more reselling, I am still having to do more shopping and audits because that is guaranteed cash, which I need right now so I can save up to get the garage fixed. Once I get that done, I am getting my LLC and will do reselling 100% as that will be more money in the long run.