Mystery shopping has not changed me. Life has changed me. As time passes, my priorities change. But I have changed as a shopper.
In the beginning, I was scarcely involved in this industry. I had other jobs and interests. For years, I tried to arrange the primary job so that all of work and life would dovetail. While waiting for needed change, I did too many assignments, lost sleep, and accumulated a backlog of tasks and projects. I jokingly call this "Deferred Maintenance".
During this time, it was necessary for me to perform too much work in this industry. My family felt scrambled and frazzled because there were too many assignments mixed up with too many days and other interests.
Now, the primary job is as desired and I have returned to slight involvement in this large industry.
This is working well. Family is happy. Family is identifiable and distinct from work. We need less money from/due to this industry because we are available to do various things that cause our lives to cost less. It is a paradox, I think.
Bach is not noise, Madam. (Robert, in Two's Company)