@Misanthrope wrote:
It depends on if you're doing this for the scheduler, or the MSC. I have a good rapport with a few schedulers at companies that have some really nice assignments- usually high end hotels. I can scratch their back and do a bad assignment at the last minute for them because that way I know I can call on a favor and say "Hey, I'm taking a woman out on a date next week and I don't want to pay for dinner, give me a nice restaurant on Saturday"
@MSF wrote:
@Misanthrope wrote:
It depends on if you're doing this for the scheduler, or the MSC. I have a good rapport with a few schedulers at companies that have some really nice assignments- usually high end hotels. I can scratch their back and do a bad assignment at the last minute for them because that way I know I can call on a favor and say "Hey, I'm taking a woman out on a date next week and I don't want to pay for dinner, give me a nice restaurant on Saturday"
Have you taken a new romantic interest to a restaurant that you were shopping?
@Misanthrope wrote:
@MSF wrote:
@Misanthrope wrote:
It depends on if you're doing this for the scheduler, or the MSC. I have a good rapport with a few schedulers at companies that have some really nice assignments- usually high end hotels. I can scratch their back and do a bad assignment at the last minute for them because that way I know I can call on a favor and say "Hey, I'm taking a woman out on a date next week and I don't want to pay for dinner, give me a nice restaurant on Saturday"
Have you taken a new romantic interest to a restaurant that you were shopping?
Usually not for the first date, but usually a second or third date.
@ShopSouthTexas wrote:
I've had it done recently with a mediocre shop. The scheduler wouldn't give it to me unless I took an even more undesirable shop. I left it on the table for someone else to snatch up. Now to figure out the toy store shop! I've done the plastic bricks and the mouse stores but I don't remember the ages being as specific as this. I'd take a $40 dinner shop, I think...
@DareWright wrote:
@ShopSouthTexas wrote:
I've had it done recently with a mediocre shop. The scheduler wouldn't give it to me unless I took an even more undesirable shop. I left it on the table for someone else to snatch up. Now to figure out the toy store shop! I've done the plastic bricks and the mouse stores but I don't remember the ages being as specific as this. I'd take a $40 dinner shop, I think...
You would take a $40 reimbursement-only dinner shop that doesn't cover the entire meal, at a restaurant you don't care for, that requires 8 photos and alcohol, plus a recorded phone call....all for a $35 stuffed animal?
@SteveSoCal wrote:
I've stated this elsewhere, but MSIng is a great way to break the ice and ask someone on a date. It creates a sense of adventure, something to do/talk about and a lot less pressure if you are not footing the bill for the meal.
@SteveSoCal wrote:
Misanthrope is still relatively new to dating/MSing. He'll learn to work it into a first date soon
I've stated this elsewhere, but MSIng is a great way to break the ice and ask someone on a date. It creates a sense of adventure, something to do/talk about and a lot less pressure if you are not footing the bill for the meal.
@MSF wrote:
Okay, now I'm intrigued. I have thought about doing this before but feared a couple of things: 1) That it would make me look cheap 2) That it would be awkward to tell my date what they can and cannot order. Steve, how are these not deal breakers?
@SteveSoCal wrote:
Misanthrope is still relatively new to dating/MSing. He'll learn to work it into a first date soon
I've stated this elsewhere, but MSIng is a great way to break the ice and ask someone on a date. It creates a sense of adventure, something to do/talk about and a lot less pressure if you are not footing the bill for the meal.
@SoCalMama wrote:
@SteveSoCal wrote:
I've stated this elsewhere, but MSIng is a great way to break the ice and ask someone on a date. It creates a sense of adventure, something to do/talk about and a lot less pressure if you are not footing the bill for the meal.
Ah, if they only knew.... you wrote the book on this dear.
@MSF wrote:
Okay, now I'm intrigued. I have thought about doing this before but feared a couple of things: 1) That it would make me look cheap 2) That it would be awkward to tell my date what they can and cannot order. Steve, how are these not deal breakers?
MSF I think you need to look at this from a different point of view. If I was on a date with someone who told me it was a mystery shop and then gave me a short rundown on what that meant, that would make it all the more exciting for me. I had finally met a man who had the same values I have...the sense of adventure, the not cheap but use a more positive twist on the concept...frugal perhaps, the attention to detail and all that goes with that. As a female I might think this is the type of guy I might want to stick with rather than a guy who might spend money he does not have...bad for the future prospects of this guy as I would not want to get involved with a guy who is always in debt. Anyway, think of it as winnowing out the women you would not want to go to the next level with. Unless of course it is for you a one night stand and you want to make sure you get your reward at the end. If that is the case then stay away from a mystery shopping date.