Great ideas, Mary! I especially like the one about moderating disparaging rant threads. I also disagree with allowing these needlessly flamboyant thread titles to remain on our forum.
LIJake made a great post the other day on one of the "Beware" threads - and I feel like repeating it over and over anytime someone feels the need to vent inapropriately.
"Beware of any post that starts out with "Beware". Just saying. " - LIJake
I don't have a problem with people venting when they are upset or unhappy. But an angry, abusive post on an internet forum is, to me, the internet version of a person stamping their feet, screaming, and throwing a temper tantrum. I've been known to throw a good old tantrum but I do it when I'm by myself. When I want to vent to other people, I try to use my language skills to explain the problem and the details clearly and without emotion and I'm open to other interpretations and advice. If I don't want other opinions or advice, I don't post my vent.
Some of the abusive posters tend to say they are not venting, they are "warning other shoppers." I call that B.S. Telling other shoppers "XXXX are SCAMMERS - STAY AWAY" gives no valid warning to anyone at all. A poster who truly feels wronged and actually wants to warn others provides a detailed description of what happened and why they feel wronged.
I agree that these unprofessional over-the-top threads announcing "BEWARE," "SCAMMERS," "CHEATS," and other incendiary, attention-grabbing titles should be neutralized. I think it would encourage professional behavior and help us focus on real issues, like providing actual input to posters who want other opinions and advice. And it might cut down on some of the troll posts we've seen lately. JMHO