Luke -
I applaud you for being brave enough to post this entire sordid mess. I am curious what you will find out from your school. Posting that will be useful also. I have a son in college. I can only hope that he doesn't fall for this or any other scam. The scam artists are good. Excellent, in fact.
Since there is no such thing as bad publicity, you might want to contact your college newspaper or the local general circulation newspaper. Before you do that, set up a GoFundMe, and the reporter may let you mention that. If you do, and if you happen to collect more money than you lost, let them know again, and have a plan as to what you will do with the excess money. Let us know if you do set up a GoFundMe. I am willing to contribute.
I am going to copy your story and send it to my son and to friends who have children in college. Most people who get scammed are too ashamed to tell the world, but it is only by making the story public, that other people get educated. Thank you for sharing your story.
Two careers ago, I taught at a major research university, and at that time I came up with a phrase which helped students then, and which I have occasionally said to colleagues and friends since then: "Pride is a renewable resource." This too will pass, and you will have a great story to tell people.
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