I have been self-employed for over 40 years. I was audited exactly once, and not due to self-employment. (It was about the status of a stipend for graduate study. I won.) When my 1099 does not agree with my claimed income from that source, I just print on the tax form, "Difference in income claimed is due to receipt of some funds in early January and will be reflected in next tax year." That has never, ever, brought any scrutiny.
The IRS wants to target its audit activities on "high probability targets." If you show the least evidence that you know what you are doing, they don't want to waste their time on you.
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